I have a nice girlfriend and kind of have always gone down that route. But I'm lusting after all these hot,tanned, blonde *****es. I mean *****es literally too. Are those kind of girls worthwhile in a relationship or are nice girls the way to go?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
are *****es worth it?
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
L777
Master Don Juan
I have managed to get a few of them since arriving in the states. And IMO they're definately NOT worth it.
Make you work hard to get in their pants, crap in bed, b.itch and moan all the time, insecure, usually fake blonde and tanned anyway.
Any girl that pronounces "yea" as "ya", "best" as "bast" or greets her female friends as "girl" is not really worth your time...look elsewhere; there's some really interesting, smoking hot chicks on my campus!
Make you work hard to get in their pants, crap in bed, b.itch and moan all the time, insecure, usually fake blonde and tanned anyway.
Any girl that pronounces "yea" as "ya", "best" as "bast" or greets her female friends as "girl" is not really worth your time...look elsewhere; there's some really interesting, smoking hot chicks on my campus!
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
LOL wut?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
Only go for the tanned blondes if you're willing to put up with the ensuing drama. You'll be dealing with her insecurities, your insecurities, AMOGs, and all the meanwhile have the best sex of your life. Trade-off? I think so.
everywomanshero
Master Don Juan
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I find it incredibly unlikely that all tall blondes are *****es. Seems unlikely. In fact I happen to know many who are not. I really don't like tall women personally but to each his own. If you think they will be *****y, then a self-fuffiling prophecy ensues and they actually become *****y. If you think of them like as being a lil silly and fun to flirt with, then that's what going to happen more often than not.
Some people are anti-social, that's true. I run into them too. The difference is I don't generalize one person's disorder to everyone else who looks remotely similar. This doesn't happen all the time though. Tall blondes can suffer from mental disorders just like anyone else, doesnt mean the whole lot is bad.
Another idea is if you get one that really is being anti-social or otherwise acting bizzare, try out some of the craziest **** on them. If they are already acting like they need to be in a straight jacket, might as well have some fun with them =) but for god's sake don't give them a real name or let them know where you live. Best to go to their places if they are a little unbalanced.
Some people are anti-social, that's true. I run into them too. The difference is I don't generalize one person's disorder to everyone else who looks remotely similar. This doesn't happen all the time though. Tall blondes can suffer from mental disorders just like anyone else, doesnt mean the whole lot is bad.
Another idea is if you get one that really is being anti-social or otherwise acting bizzare, try out some of the craziest **** on them. If they are already acting like they need to be in a straight jacket, might as well have some fun with them =) but for god's sake don't give them a real name or let them know where you live. Best to go to their places if they are a little unbalanced.
L777
Master Don Juan
BS....as slut.ty as these girls acts, seems to me like they ain't hooking up that often. If you can find ones that are good in bed, then thry're the exception, not the rule.The Deacon said:
Look for girls with their own style, real personality, a little bit more to them then just looks, you know. These kinds of girls have been awesome in bed from my experience.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
let me sing yous a little song...bud_2005 said:
" What rolls down stairs?
Alone or in pairs?
Rolls over the neighbor's dog?
It's great for a snack, it fits on your back,
It's LOG, LOG, LOG!
It's Log, it's Log, it's big, it's heavy, it's wood!
It's Log, it's Log, it's better than bad, it's good!
Everyone wants a Log!
You're gonna love it, Log!
Come on and get your Log!
Everyone needs a Log!"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I've had insanely hot chicks that absolutely sucked in bed. I guess they think they can just lay there because they are hot.
But, I've also had the complete opposite with hot chicks being insanely good.
Its hit or miss. I always enjoy ****ing hot dumb girls though. I could really care less about having a girlfriend, so it works out for me.
But, I've also had the complete opposite with hot chicks being insanely good.
Its hit or miss. I always enjoy ****ing hot dumb girls though. I could really care less about having a girlfriend, so it works out for me.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
she's bad in bed... she's a log!bud_2005 said:????