"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are drive ins a good idea?

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I was trying to get this chic to invite me over to watch a movie, instead she suggested a drive in.

Is that a decent place to escalate or should I come back with a bar for drinks type date?

This is a 2nd date and we live 45 minutes apart, so last time we met somewhere between us. It would be hard to convince her to come back to my place.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You are in a parking lot in a car aren't you? Why would it not be a decent place to escalate? You two are alone in small quarters instead of an open noisy public bar. Start to kiss and finger her and you are good to go.

Why won't she make the 45 minute trip to you? I never had a problem with girls driving distances to me.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
I had more sex at the drive-in when I was a teenager than anywhere else. My gf had a van.

Tip: park in the back.
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:rockon: Same here. Me and my ex wife who started dating in HS would f\_/ck in the back seat of my car and not even care. Great times!!! A drive-in opened near me between 2012 and 2013 . The guy who opened it was so excited about it that he pretty much ate a bunch of his own money and wasn't even worried about making a profit. He only charged like $4.00 to get in at first, thinking it would take off but it busted, and towards the end he was running it for free trying to get more people. But it wasn't even open a year. People don't appreciate it these days.
 
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What?? Drive-ins are perfect. There are fewer better places to cozy up and get nasty.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Drive-ins are cool. But if she rejected the initial invite in favor of the Drive-in it sounds like she's trying to avoid easy sex. Escalate smoothly here but don't press to hard. Turn her on and make her beg and earn your phallus. Rather then seem eager just to give it out.
 
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