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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Are drive ins a good idea?

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I was trying to get this chic to invite me over to watch a movie, instead she suggested a drive in.

Is that a decent place to escalate or should I come back with a bar for drinks type date?

This is a 2nd date and we live 45 minutes apart, so last time we met somewhere between us. It would be hard to convince her to come back to my place.
 

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You are in a parking lot in a car aren't you? Why would it not be a decent place to escalate? You two are alone in small quarters instead of an open noisy public bar. Start to kiss and finger her and you are good to go.

Why won't she make the 45 minute trip to you? I never had a problem with girls driving distances to me.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
I had more sex at the drive-in when I was a teenager than anywhere else. My gf had a van.

Tip: park in the back.
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:rockon: Same here. Me and my ex wife who started dating in HS would f\_/ck in the back seat of my car and not even care. Great times!!! A drive-in opened near me between 2012 and 2013 . The guy who opened it was so excited about it that he pretty much ate a bunch of his own money and wasn't even worried about making a profit. He only charged like $4.00 to get in at first, thinking it would take off but it busted, and towards the end he was running it for free trying to get more people. But it wasn't even open a year. People don't appreciate it these days.
 
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What?? Drive-ins are perfect. There are fewer better places to cozy up and get nasty.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Drive-ins are cool. But if she rejected the initial invite in favor of the Drive-in it sounds like she's trying to avoid easy sex. Escalate smoothly here but don't press to hard. Turn her on and make her beg and earn your phallus. Rather then seem eager just to give it out.
 
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