"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm aware that around the world traits such as charm and confidence go a long way. Are DJ tricks, specifically negging, hot & cold etc. the same though? I bring this up because every couple of years I travel to see my family in Europe (I live in N. America) and all the times I've seen guys get to work on girls, they usaully succeed by doing things that we here in America would discourage. For example, a good friend of mine was talking to this girl and he was basically teling her how he has lousy luck with women, has gotten his heart broken, etc. etc. Really emotional stuff her that would NOT fly here and the girl my friend was talking to basically ate it up and they went out a few days later. This has happened more then once also, so I know it wasn't a coincidence.

I was wondering if depending on where you are if you have to calibrate how you approach women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah i actually thought bout this last night. And no I don't think all Dj principles are universal. I think having inner game is something u need everywhere. BUT the techniques from the different styles are not applicable in some cultures. for example I've been to Cuba and Dominican Republic and the indirect method would not work too good there. In those countries if you don't approach and come directly to show interest off eye contact you're a done man. Its expected in Caribbean that if your interested in a women u let be known or else u'll look like a wussy. hope that helps
 
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No rule is universal.

There's always an exception. Different women want different things. I know some women who hate jerks and actually like nice guys. There's some women out there who go for genuine nice guys. And then on the other hand, I know some women who like shy guys. That's against the norm, because women usually don't like shy guys, but I know some women that do. Women want different things. It is a danger and a flaw of man to categorize people. No man or woman falls into a certain category.
 
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If you're asking whether confidence is universal then yes. Confidence can be an accurate measure of one's attractiveness. But depending on how you use that confidence is what matters most.

To each their own. All women have varying tastes, some like slim guys, meaty guys, buff guys, geeky guys...etc.
 
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