"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are cult leaders just the "alpha of the alphas" in PUA?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
It seems that every story of a cultist involves the cult leader being able to totally manipulate a bunch of women into being plated up in a hard harem - with the gynocracy calling it a "sex cult" simply because the cult leader has a lot of sex with them. :rolleyes: Isn't this just the cult leader being extraordinarily talented in using PUA to get him his poontang harem? And along that line of thinking, shouldn't men desiring to become PUA experts strive to be, in essence, like a cult leader?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Isn't this just the cult leader being extraordinarily talented in using PUA to get him his poontang harem?
It would be except that most of these cult leaders exact punishment for disobedience.

Forcing your cult members to blow you under threat of being killed and buried in the desert isn't quite a PUA tactic.

And most normal people don't join cults, people that join cults are seriously messed up.
 

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I was watching Waco, and my mind was blown seeing David Koresh not only bang a man’s wife but knock her up as well. Total beta move allowing you and your wife join a cult and get cucked.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
It seems that every story of a cultist involves the cult leader being able to totally manipulate a bunch of women into being plated up in a hard harem - with the gynocracy calling it a "sex cult" simply because the cult leader has a lot of sex with them. :rolleyes: Isn't this just the cult leader being extraordinarily talented in using PUA to get him his poontang harem? And along that line of thinking, shouldn't men desiring to become PUA experts strive to be, in essence, like a cult leader?
he manipulate everyone already when they started to follow him, after that you really think it would difficult for him to start some sort of harem? hell some of these people would not only be happy but depending on how he build his cult would be a blessing of his on his wife daughter.

with in some cults that did happen, or gandhi sleeping naked with children who was following him
 

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It would be except that most of these cult leaders exact punishment for disobedience.

Forcing your cult members to blow you under threat of being killed and buried in the desert isn't quite a PUA tactic.

And most normal people don't join cults, people that join cults are seriously messed up.
Most cult leaders have charismatic personalities that have a very dark side. You think of people like Ted Bundy.

This actually goes with any principle in life, whether it is a gang, Socialist/Communist revolution, the mafia, etc... it's always great and easy and sweet in the beginning then there is hell to pay afterwards when you want to leave or want it back the way it was when it starts going south.

PUA concepts is about inducing women into your world by your charm, charismatic personality, or those traits that initially woo people in if the OP is making a case about that. Not the darker sides of it after the fact.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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More than likely sociopathy or psychopathy.

These people, if you can call them that, are power hungry 24/7 and take advantage of people even when there’s no reason to do so.
Most of them never end up in jail. These types rule the world whether you’re aware of it or not. The high functioning ones end up doing very well in business and politics. Same thing with cults. Although I would think the ones that end up as cult leaders do so because they’re too noticeably eccentric to make it in the aforementioned arenas. The dynamic of the “alpha” of the group certainly applies to cult leaders, but to an extreme degree - an insatiable need to dominate others.

Thats why you hear about mass suicides in cults. The “leader” would rather his followers kill themselves than risk losing their unconditional obedience and admiration.
 
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Damn, the women in that photo are really attractive.

Cult leaders use extreme social engineering and manipulation tactics in order to "brainwash" people.
They stick to a fictional story that only they believe, and then convince others to believe in it too.
They typically prey upon the weak minded and gullible. There's always a religious element in every cult.
I believe the way they hook people in is by being generous and giving in the very beginning. That's how they earn your trust. Once they earn your trust, then the psychological tactics start to begin.

I think one of the most fascinating cults to read about is Heaven's Gate.
I personally believe the cult leader in that group was absolutely psycho.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Marshall Applegate - Heavens Gate Leader
If you looked up Wacko in the illustrated dictionary...
 

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PUA gurus ran a soft cult in the sense that they discouraged followers from considering outside ideas or influence.

"Never listen to the advice of women or those 'bluepilled/AFC' guys."
Pua was absolutely cult like and blue pill guys are extremely easy targets. Some of the pua guys made absolute fortunes off of those unfortunate men, and most of the men probably didn't make very much progress. Personally I think it was very immoral to profit off of those guys. Advice on women and how to get /keep/ screen for them should be free because the more men that understand the reality and these concepts, internalize it, over time it will increase the quality and integrity of women. Boys in public school should have to go to gender dynamics classes like they have to go to sex Ed. Then when his guys want to settle down, and I know a lot of you hardcore players get lonely after awhile, but your trust is tanked because of you experiences, could actually have something to work with. Sharing information is the only way to fix the western world.
 
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