"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are cult leaders just the "alpha of the alphas" in PUA?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
It seems that every story of a cultist involves the cult leader being able to totally manipulate a bunch of women into being plated up in a hard harem - with the gynocracy calling it a "sex cult" simply because the cult leader has a lot of sex with them. :rolleyes: Isn't this just the cult leader being extraordinarily talented in using PUA to get him his poontang harem? And along that line of thinking, shouldn't men desiring to become PUA experts strive to be, in essence, like a cult leader?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Isn't this just the cult leader being extraordinarily talented in using PUA to get him his poontang harem?
It would be except that most of these cult leaders exact punishment for disobedience.

Forcing your cult members to blow you under threat of being killed and buried in the desert isn't quite a PUA tactic.

And most normal people don't join cults, people that join cults are seriously messed up.
 

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I was watching Waco, and my mind was blown seeing David Koresh not only bang a man’s wife but knock her up as well. Total beta move allowing you and your wife join a cult and get cucked.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
It seems that every story of a cultist involves the cult leader being able to totally manipulate a bunch of women into being plated up in a hard harem - with the gynocracy calling it a "sex cult" simply because the cult leader has a lot of sex with them. :rolleyes: Isn't this just the cult leader being extraordinarily talented in using PUA to get him his poontang harem? And along that line of thinking, shouldn't men desiring to become PUA experts strive to be, in essence, like a cult leader?
he manipulate everyone already when they started to follow him, after that you really think it would difficult for him to start some sort of harem? hell some of these people would not only be happy but depending on how he build his cult would be a blessing of his on his wife daughter.

with in some cults that did happen, or gandhi sleeping naked with children who was following him
 

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It would be except that most of these cult leaders exact punishment for disobedience.

Forcing your cult members to blow you under threat of being killed and buried in the desert isn't quite a PUA tactic.

And most normal people don't join cults, people that join cults are seriously messed up.
Most cult leaders have charismatic personalities that have a very dark side. You think of people like Ted Bundy.

This actually goes with any principle in life, whether it is a gang, Socialist/Communist revolution, the mafia, etc... it's always great and easy and sweet in the beginning then there is hell to pay afterwards when you want to leave or want it back the way it was when it starts going south.

PUA concepts is about inducing women into your world by your charm, charismatic personality, or those traits that initially woo people in if the OP is making a case about that. Not the darker sides of it after the fact.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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More than likely sociopathy or psychopathy.

These people, if you can call them that, are power hungry 24/7 and take advantage of people even when there’s no reason to do so.
Most of them never end up in jail. These types rule the world whether you’re aware of it or not. The high functioning ones end up doing very well in business and politics. Same thing with cults. Although I would think the ones that end up as cult leaders do so because they’re too noticeably eccentric to make it in the aforementioned arenas. The dynamic of the “alpha” of the group certainly applies to cult leaders, but to an extreme degree - an insatiable need to dominate others.

Thats why you hear about mass suicides in cults. The “leader” would rather his followers kill themselves than risk losing their unconditional obedience and admiration.
 
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Damn, the women in that photo are really attractive.

Cult leaders use extreme social engineering and manipulation tactics in order to "brainwash" people.
They stick to a fictional story that only they believe, and then convince others to believe in it too.
They typically prey upon the weak minded and gullible. There's always a religious element in every cult.
I believe the way they hook people in is by being generous and giving in the very beginning. That's how they earn your trust. Once they earn your trust, then the psychological tactics start to begin.

I think one of the most fascinating cults to read about is Heaven's Gate.
I personally believe the cult leader in that group was absolutely psycho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Marshall Applegate - Heavens Gate Leader
If you looked up Wacko in the illustrated dictionary...
 

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PUA gurus ran a soft cult in the sense that they discouraged followers from considering outside ideas or influence.

"Never listen to the advice of women or those 'bluepilled/AFC' guys."
Pua was absolutely cult like and blue pill guys are extremely easy targets. Some of the pua guys made absolute fortunes off of those unfortunate men, and most of the men probably didn't make very much progress. Personally I think it was very immoral to profit off of those guys. Advice on women and how to get /keep/ screen for them should be free because the more men that understand the reality and these concepts, internalize it, over time it will increase the quality and integrity of women. Boys in public school should have to go to gender dynamics classes like they have to go to sex Ed. Then when his guys want to settle down, and I know a lot of you hardcore players get lonely after awhile, but your trust is tanked because of you experiences, could actually have something to work with. Sharing information is the only way to fix the western world.
 
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