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Are coffee dates good for high schoolers?

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hey everyone, i was reading through the Bible and I found a thread about coffee dates in which a person in it said coffee dates were not good for high school girls. He was saying that their still too immature and wouldn't like it.

Now i am all for action dates, but i set up this date on a rainy, cold night and coffee is really the only thing i can think of doing. (it's supposed to rain)

What does everyone think of coffee dates based on experiences?
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whoever said that is probably still a virgin.

Just kidding, but he sounds like a very close minded guy who most likely is a virgin.

Listen, you don't need guidelines on where to take girls. Take girls somewhere they haven't been before. Take them somewhere another chump in high school hasn't. Set yourself apart.

Any guy can take a girl to a movie and buy her popcorn.

It takes a very intelligent and sensual guy (and yes women do like intelligent men, as long as they can concentrate on something besides themselves) to take a girl on a nice walk and have a conversation.

I was always under the misconception in high school that the guys who got ass were the ones who played by the rules. Don't. Women love guys who aren't afraid to go outside of the norm. Do what you want.
 

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hmm haha you both went off on little tangents but that's ok, i like the input anyway.

Well, the reason i was (am) going to take her to just chat over coffee is because i haven't talked to this girl in a long time, and were just going to catch up. Nothing big for two reasons

  1. I'm broke
  2. I actually just want to talk and catch up


I'm open for more opinions though, fire away :up:
 

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Sounds like you want to do a coffee date.

So you should do a coffee date.
 

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