"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are coffee dates good for high schoolers?

asdfghjkl

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hey everyone, i was reading through the Bible and I found a thread about coffee dates in which a person in it said coffee dates were not good for high school girls. He was saying that their still too immature and wouldn't like it.

Now i am all for action dates, but i set up this date on a rainy, cold night and coffee is really the only thing i can think of doing. (it's supposed to rain)

What does everyone think of coffee dates based on experiences?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whoever said that is probably still a virgin.

Just kidding, but he sounds like a very close minded guy who most likely is a virgin.

Listen, you don't need guidelines on where to take girls. Take girls somewhere they haven't been before. Take them somewhere another chump in high school hasn't. Set yourself apart.

Any guy can take a girl to a movie and buy her popcorn.

It takes a very intelligent and sensual guy (and yes women do like intelligent men, as long as they can concentrate on something besides themselves) to take a girl on a nice walk and have a conversation.

I was always under the misconception in high school that the guys who got ass were the ones who played by the rules. Don't. Women love guys who aren't afraid to go outside of the norm. Do what you want.
 

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hmm haha you both went off on little tangents but that's ok, i like the input anyway.

Well, the reason i was (am) going to take her to just chat over coffee is because i haven't talked to this girl in a long time, and were just going to catch up. Nothing big for two reasons

  1. I'm broke
  2. I actually just want to talk and catch up


I'm open for more opinions though, fire away :up:
 

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Sounds like you want to do a coffee date.

So you should do a coffee date.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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