"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are Bartenders Worth the Trouble?

B-Real

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I went to a big college bar a couple weeks ago. Well as you know college is out for the summer, so their wasn't hardly anyone in there. I mean there may have been 4 others in there besides me and my buddy.

I've been there before and you can't help but notice the bartender. She's really a looker. I'm sure she gets a lot attention. But, back to my situation.

We were sitting there and she came up and started small talking with us. And right off I knew that she was doing this because she wanted a good tip. But as we were talking I realized that I was trying to game her a little, sorta in an unconcious way, and she just really brushed everything off that I said. It was kinda like she knew that she had me right where she wants me, even though I wasn't being a p***y. For some reason I had a hard time taking her off the pedestal.

I mean i know she has to get a LOT of male attention as most female bartenders do, so is it worth it to spend time working on one?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bman

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it cant hurt to flirt with them, girls like attention. besides, you're more likely to get better service stronger drinks.
 

sadburger

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Game the bartenders all you want, just don't let it influence your tip.

On another note, bartenders are girls too, and sure they may get hit on a lot, but so does the average hot girl. Using standard DJ tactics and you can get a number close on a bartender just like any other girl.
 

backbreaker

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last time I checked, women bartenders had pvssies too. i bet they get wet
 
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