"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are Bartenders Worth the Trouble?

B-Real

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I went to a big college bar a couple weeks ago. Well as you know college is out for the summer, so their wasn't hardly anyone in there. I mean there may have been 4 others in there besides me and my buddy.

I've been there before and you can't help but notice the bartender. She's really a looker. I'm sure she gets a lot attention. But, back to my situation.

We were sitting there and she came up and started small talking with us. And right off I knew that she was doing this because she wanted a good tip. But as we were talking I realized that I was trying to game her a little, sorta in an unconcious way, and she just really brushed everything off that I said. It was kinda like she knew that she had me right where she wants me, even though I wasn't being a p***y. For some reason I had a hard time taking her off the pedestal.

I mean i know she has to get a LOT of male attention as most female bartenders do, so is it worth it to spend time working on one?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bman

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it cant hurt to flirt with them, girls like attention. besides, you're more likely to get better service stronger drinks.
 

sadburger

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Game the bartenders all you want, just don't let it influence your tip.

On another note, bartenders are girls too, and sure they may get hit on a lot, but so does the average hot girl. Using standard DJ tactics and you can get a number close on a bartender just like any other girl.
 

backbreaker

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last time I checked, women bartenders had pvssies too. i bet they get wet
 
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