"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are Bartenders Worth the Trouble?

B-Real

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I went to a big college bar a couple weeks ago. Well as you know college is out for the summer, so their wasn't hardly anyone in there. I mean there may have been 4 others in there besides me and my buddy.

I've been there before and you can't help but notice the bartender. She's really a looker. I'm sure she gets a lot attention. But, back to my situation.

We were sitting there and she came up and started small talking with us. And right off I knew that she was doing this because she wanted a good tip. But as we were talking I realized that I was trying to game her a little, sorta in an unconcious way, and she just really brushed everything off that I said. It was kinda like she knew that she had me right where she wants me, even though I wasn't being a p***y. For some reason I had a hard time taking her off the pedestal.

I mean i know she has to get a LOT of male attention as most female bartenders do, so is it worth it to spend time working on one?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bman

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it cant hurt to flirt with them, girls like attention. besides, you're more likely to get better service stronger drinks.
 

sadburger

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Game the bartenders all you want, just don't let it influence your tip.

On another note, bartenders are girls too, and sure they may get hit on a lot, but so does the average hot girl. Using standard DJ tactics and you can get a number close on a bartender just like any other girl.
 

backbreaker

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last time I checked, women bartenders had pvssies too. i bet they get wet
 
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