"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are attractive women poor in bed?

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Most often I hear men that think really hot women are poor in the sack, because they are so attractive that they don't need to make it up in the bedroom.

Isn't this a stereotype or over-generalization that makes men who cannot otherwise obtain said woman to make them feel better about themselves?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most often I hear men that think really hot women are poor in the sack, because they are so attractive that they don't need to make it up in the bedroom.

Isn't this a stereotype or over-generalization that makes men who cannot otherwise obtain said woman to make them feel better about themselves?
I am of the opinion that ALL women are bad in bed. It's not that they're "bad," it's just that their part is very easy.

Bend over, spread your legs, get on top sometimes, open your mouth. Not rocket science.

Yet women seem to all think that they are sexual Olympians, when it's really just a series of easy tasks for them.

Even female porn stars will tell you that the male porn stars have the harder job.
 

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Attraction is one part, but it's mainly how much she turns you on. If you're hard enough, she's hot enough. Chemistry is a big part of it.

That said, the most beautiful girl I ever had sex with is the best lover I ever had.

1) She made certain sounds that pulled on my heart strings.
2) Holding her felt better than an orgasm.
3) She knew exactly how to turn me on.
4) She knew the right balance between being slutty and being ladylike.
5) She studied what I liked and became my dream girl over time.
 

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In general, they are. They are because men *** just thinking of them, let alone being with them. So if you can make most men *** by just the idea of you, why would you develop any skills?
 

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I have noticed that when you're f*cking a 10 it feels exactly like f*cking a 9.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh jeez...at least tell her you like threesomes and cash in
I don't like threesomes. By change I mean over time she changed her hair, her makeup, her eyelashes, her shoes, and her outfits just to please me. She was already the most beautiful woman I knew, but nobody could compare to her at that point. Naturally she was great in bed.

The sex with some women is boring and with others is fantastic. I don't think it has to do with their looks assuming you are turned on.

You need to have sex with at least 10 women to get a feel for the differences. Don't put up with just one. You don't realize how much coping you need to do with just one.

The sex gets better over time with the same girl.
 

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Ive fvcked a hb9 who loved my skills and was poor in my book. Only fvcked high value guys. Ive fvcked a hb5 who chocked on my d1ck and rode me like a rodeo. Also high stamina and She leveled my skills. Hungry for lust so looks dont say sh1t
 

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The looks stereotype is because better looking tend to be more entitled and more stuck up. More entitled and stuck up women and men for that matter tend to be worse In bed.
 

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Instagram "models" look like the laziest lays ever. Gorgeous, but they look like the type that would be so uninterested and constantly be thinking how lucky you are to be in bed with them.

I'm banging a solid 6 right now, not the prettiest ever, but she's the exact opposite of a dead fish and does pretty much everything with enthusiasm.
 

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I’ve dated mostly 7’s, 8’s and a few 9’s. I’ve never seen any correlation between how good they were in bed and their looks. The best sechs always occurred with the ones that were adventurous, open minded, pleasers, and were highly attracted to me mentally and physically.

The girl I have now has the body of an 8, face of a 9. There is nothing she won't do in bed. There are no boundaries with her. Every thing is on the table. She wants to please, and is pretty much in love with me. Gets off very easily. She is probably some of the best sechs I've ever had.

I had a 7 a while back that was pretty lame. She barely moved, and her pu$$y was so loose I could barely get off. I had sechs once with her and I couldn't wait to fall asleep. Was not impressed.

Also the borderlines and bipolars tend to be really good at sechs. If there was ever a stereotype that was true, this would be it.

The more that girl is into you, the easier the relationship will be and the hotter the sechs. Take that to the bank.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women with big egos and over confidence are bad in bed IMO. Looks don't factor in that much. It's more about her ego and attitude about sex that turns me on or off. The ones who don't care what you think of their performance suck. I like it more when the girl is a little insecure.

Girls who are very confident and aggressive in bed turn me off. Makes it seem like they have too much experience. That's a slut alert to me. I don't want to feel like I'm the woman or like we have equal sexual experience.
 

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It's the entitled ones that don't develop skills like Olympians, and they brand themselves as such.

Strip, spread, suck, scream. That's what they really do. Men have a lot more work to do.
 
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