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Are any females actually happy

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Just this week I received a text from a number I didn’t have in my phone. It was a girl I dated for 2 years in college. She is married now and has two kids. She graduated from an Ivy League college... married a neurologist... and honestly has an amazing life. I’m definitely not her pedigree... im a meat head. The conversation was pretty normal just catching up. It was about 830 pm and I mentioned I was hitting the hay. She made a comment about how early it was and I said I have issues trying to sleep in and wake up at 330 no matter what I try.

she responds if we would meet up sometime I promise you that you wouldn’t be able to get out of bed in the morning....of course I had fun with this...for about another half hour... she mentioned she would be on a business trip in June if I could meet her.

so my question is..... are there any females that are actually happy and not willing to cheat? Prior to her reaching out every single ltr that I was once in had hit me up.... and pretty much threw out that they would be down for hooking up.... that’s now 100 percent of them with her reaching out.

I have never taken any of them up on the affair offers but it blows my mind.... these were not bar flies....or sluts...
It's the typical female dual strategy of wanting a relationship with someone that can provide a fancy lifestyle, whilst also having their fun by cheating on the provider. If you get with a woman that just wants you for the goods you can provide, this is the kind of behaviour you can expect.
 

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She sounds bored. Likely one of those were you will be able to exchange 3-4 sets of hot, sexy texts with her about what "she will do to you" when you finally meet up. You will meet up with her, it will be awkward, and she will give you some load then about how "she just can't do this."

Women need constant validation. This is not directly tied to them getting sex. She isn't getting that validation from her husband. So enter you. But this doesn't mean you are getting laid - even if she is trying to lead you on to think that way.

Now is she "happy"? Well - that is a very fluid situation for any woman. At that very moment, she likely wasn't. But that can change quickly.
 

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She sounds bored. Likely one of those were you will be able to exchange 3-4 sets of hot, sexy texts with her about what "she will do to you" when you finally meet up. You will meet up with her, it will be awkward, and she will give you some load then about how "she just can't do this."

Women need constant validation. This is not directly tied to them getting sex. She isn't getting that validation from her husband. So enter you. But this doesn't mean you are getting laid - even if she is trying to lead you on to think that way.

Now is she "happy"? Well - that is a very fluid situation for any woman. At that very moment, she likely wasn't. But that can change quickly.
It's so easy for women to get the validation without exchanging sex for it. Even alpha/sigma men will have to do some sort of validation in order to get sex but alpha/sigma men don't simp in the manner that beta and omega males simp.
 

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It's so easy for women to get the validation without exchanging sex for it. Even alpha/sigma men will have to do some sort of validation in order to get sex but alpha/sigma men don't simp in the manner that beta and omega males simp.
You're right. And it's why a lot of women just sign up for OLD with the only intention of seeing how many matches and how much simping beta guys will do for their attention. They have an innate need for this that has only been exacerbated by social media and our society's overall outlook on dating in general.
 

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it's why a lot of women just sign up for OLD with the only intention of seeing how many matches and how much simping beta guys will do for their attention. They have an innate need for this that has only been exacerbated by social media and our society's overall outlook on dating in general.
There are a lot of women who would have nearly non-existant dating lives who put themselves out on an app and then they realize how much their vagina is in demand. Women can have more first dates in a week on a swipe app than it would take for them to have in 3-6 months without the use of swipe apps or social media DMs.
 

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There are a lot of women who would have nearly non-existant dating lives who put themselves out on an app and then they realize how much their vagina is in demand. Women can have more first dates in a week on a swipe app than it would take for them to have in 3-6 months without the use of swipe apps or social media DMs.
Had a female friend - cute redhead but definitely nothing you would write home about - probably a HB 6.5. Literally had a date lined up every other day for dinner off of Bumble for a solid 3 week period. And she had little intention of keeping even 2/3 of them.
 

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Had a female friend - cute redhead but definitely nothing you would write home about - probably a HB 6.5. Literally had a date lined up every other day for dinner off of Bumble for a solid 3 week period. And she had little intention of keeping even 2/3 of them.
This is a good case study.

3 weeks with a date every other day is roughly 10 dates, assuming that she showed up to all of those dates. If she showed up to 10 dates in 3 weeks, she probably agreed to and flaked on 10 others. If she showed up for 10 dates, 7 of them were "one date, no sex, no second date" for sure. Let's say 2 ended up in second dates. She might eventually have sex with one of those second dates.

She has abundance for sure of prospects but she might be wasting her own time and others' time if a relationship doesn't result from any of those 10 first dates.
 
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F&F is far from the best example of game but the in real time capture of female logic is priceless.

Wouldn't drop IG (ie wants to attention *****) > husband.

Cries after. Classic single mom victimhood.


It's not dunking on her or anything. It's indicative of modern women &&& having their crotch fruit your expected to foot the bill for.

These girls cry themselves to sleep. Hotter girls are turning 18, 19 ,20, 21 EVERYDAY.

The game has changed and playing house isn't end game. Should a fella choose following the beaten path, he sure as f best hope he vets correctly. I'm talking unicorn virgin or pretty damn close.

It's not even just the attitude and **** **** that makes modern women downgraded to booty call. It's coupled with 0 value added and 110% liability.

Now make no mistake. It's all social engineering. Feminism and this whole boss girl rubbish and affirmative action by the state. There's 1 enemy and it was evident in the past two year scam and mandates.

Bottom line she's either with you or against you. Majority are trying to out compete you. Not add value or anything of a net positive.
 

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Had a female friend - cute redhead but definitely nothing you would write home about - probably a HB 6.5. Literally had a date lined up every other day for dinner off of Bumble for a solid 3 week period. And she had little intention of keeping even 2/3 of them.
Start trolling &&& creeping on her hotter younger friends.

The best part of the game is leveling up and running into skanks from the past.
 

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This is a good case study.

3 weeks with a date every other day is roughly 10 dates, assuming that she showed up to all of those dates. If she showed up to 10 dates in 3 dates, she probably agreed to and flaked on 10 others. If she showed up for 10 dates, 7 of them were "one date, no sex, no second date" for sure. Let's say 2 ended up in second dates. She might eventually have sex with one of those second dates.

She has abundance for sure of prospects but she might be wasting her own time and others' time if a relationship doesn't result from any of those 10 first dates.
She is highly toxic. Hence why I never even considered putting my d1ck in her. Wouldn't be worth it.

She actually told me later on that she quit Bumble because she was too overwhelmed by the attention. It was quite a sight to see. She showed me her DMs from it and I was amazed at the number of matches she had as well as how pathetic some of the openers from the men were. I didn't ask but knowing her I am guessing she flaked on close to 100% of the dates.
 

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She actually told me later on that she quit Bumble because she was too overwhelmed by the attention. It was quite a sight to see. She showed me her DMs from it and I was amazed at the number of matches she had as well as how pathetic some of the openers from the men were. I didn't ask but knowing her I am guessing she flaked on close to 100% of the dates.
She got free validation. Learned about how much her vagina is in demand. If she flaked on close to 100% of the dates she set up, she saved the men money. The pre-first date flake is better than the "one date, no sex, no second date" flake job when the man is already out of the cost of the first date with nothing to show for his effort.
 

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I do not even do "dates." Any hangout with a girl is with me attempting to get her into bed or my car, any place to f*ck. The only exception I will make is for a really classy homely girl, and even then we'll likely just eat or chill at home to save money.
 

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The pre-first date flake is better than the "one date, no sex, no second date" flake job when the man is already out of the cost of the first date with nothing to show for his effort.
I think there's a bell curve to this... For those who don't have much experience, it's better to have the interactions...
 
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