"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are American men who date foreign women creeps & misogynists?

Serg897

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There are a lot of psychologically damaged women that post over at Jezebel - you have to wonder what kind of men these women end up dating, or marrying. Who is willing to put up with their hysterical nonsense and repression of basic manhood?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Serg897 said:
There are a lot of psychologically damaged women that post over at Jezebel - you have to wonder what kind of men these women end up dating, or marrying. Who is willing to put up with their hysterical nonsense and repression of basic manhood?
You would think that huh:)

Women are experts in hiding their emotional states when they are around men they wish to 'acquire'..that's why it is so important to pay attention to behavioral cues early on.

But the real blindness comes from the fact that most AFCs get so flushed with hormones every time a woman hb5 and over even GLANCES at them that they lose all facilities of logical thinking.

Men have always known the irresistible pull woman have had over them and have sought to limit this effect by putting strict restrictions on woman's ability to use that pull.

Needless to say this is no longer the case.
 

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A boat plys the oceans traveling from port to port. While it faces wind, weather, tides, it goes where it wants to go, does what it needs to do. Try its best, the outside world doesn't dictate what it should do and where it should go.

Its a boat, its not a piece of driftwood. The driftwood just floats there, taking everything the world will give it, going where someone else pleases, never taking control, never determining its own destiny.

Men, be the boat, don't be the driftwood. Just ignore the bullshhit
 

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scrouds said:
A boat plys the oceans traveling from port to port. While it faces wind, weather, tides, it goes where it wants to go, does what it needs to do. Try its best, the outside world doesn't dictate what it should do and where it should go.

Its a boat, its not a piece of driftwood. The driftwood just floats there, taking everything the world will give it, going where someone else pleases, never taking control, never determining its own destiny.

Men, be the boat, don't be the driftwood. Just ignore the bullshhit
Super solid advice.

Other great advice in this thread too.

Man rich and robust with collective experience and knowledge, fvcking love it.
 

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Dear MDJ,
Keep these posts coming!....."I like to date Eastern European women. Does this make me a mysogonist,creep?"....No dear Boy certainly not a Creep,though a realist perhaps...As to being mysogonist?I would say Selectively...But MD,please forgive my familiarity...Eastern European Women,particularly Russians become big Mommas,great for digging spuds,and heaving bags of wheat,but not for you....Be adventurous,try Far Eastern Women....No Religious hang ups,their genetics and diet keep them slim,in the cot they are just soo tight,that doesn't worry you now,but in ten years?...As to their being money grubbers?well in this respect,they are generally all "Sisters under the skin".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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