"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are American men who date foreign women creeps & misogynists?

Serg897

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There are a lot of psychologically damaged women that post over at Jezebel - you have to wonder what kind of men these women end up dating, or marrying. Who is willing to put up with their hysterical nonsense and repression of basic manhood?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Serg897 said:
There are a lot of psychologically damaged women that post over at Jezebel - you have to wonder what kind of men these women end up dating, or marrying. Who is willing to put up with their hysterical nonsense and repression of basic manhood?
You would think that huh:)

Women are experts in hiding their emotional states when they are around men they wish to 'acquire'..that's why it is so important to pay attention to behavioral cues early on.

But the real blindness comes from the fact that most AFCs get so flushed with hormones every time a woman hb5 and over even GLANCES at them that they lose all facilities of logical thinking.

Men have always known the irresistible pull woman have had over them and have sought to limit this effect by putting strict restrictions on woman's ability to use that pull.

Needless to say this is no longer the case.
 

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A boat plys the oceans traveling from port to port. While it faces wind, weather, tides, it goes where it wants to go, does what it needs to do. Try its best, the outside world doesn't dictate what it should do and where it should go.

Its a boat, its not a piece of driftwood. The driftwood just floats there, taking everything the world will give it, going where someone else pleases, never taking control, never determining its own destiny.

Men, be the boat, don't be the driftwood. Just ignore the bullshhit
 

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scrouds said:
A boat plys the oceans traveling from port to port. While it faces wind, weather, tides, it goes where it wants to go, does what it needs to do. Try its best, the outside world doesn't dictate what it should do and where it should go.

Its a boat, its not a piece of driftwood. The driftwood just floats there, taking everything the world will give it, going where someone else pleases, never taking control, never determining its own destiny.

Men, be the boat, don't be the driftwood. Just ignore the bullshhit
Super solid advice.

Other great advice in this thread too.

Man rich and robust with collective experience and knowledge, fvcking love it.
 

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Dear MDJ,
Keep these posts coming!....."I like to date Eastern European women. Does this make me a mysogonist,creep?"....No dear Boy certainly not a Creep,though a realist perhaps...As to being mysogonist?I would say Selectively...But MD,please forgive my familiarity...Eastern European Women,particularly Russians become big Mommas,great for digging spuds,and heaving bags of wheat,but not for you....Be adventurous,try Far Eastern Women....No Religious hang ups,their genetics and diet keep them slim,in the cot they are just soo tight,that doesn't worry you now,but in ten years?...As to their being money grubbers?well in this respect,they are generally all "Sisters under the skin".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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