"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Serg897

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There are a lot of psychologically damaged women that post over at Jezebel - you have to wonder what kind of men these women end up dating, or marrying. Who is willing to put up with their hysterical nonsense and repression of basic manhood?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Serg897 said:
There are a lot of psychologically damaged women that post over at Jezebel - you have to wonder what kind of men these women end up dating, or marrying. Who is willing to put up with their hysterical nonsense and repression of basic manhood?
You would think that huh:)

Women are experts in hiding their emotional states when they are around men they wish to 'acquire'..that's why it is so important to pay attention to behavioral cues early on.

But the real blindness comes from the fact that most AFCs get so flushed with hormones every time a woman hb5 and over even GLANCES at them that they lose all facilities of logical thinking.

Men have always known the irresistible pull woman have had over them and have sought to limit this effect by putting strict restrictions on woman's ability to use that pull.

Needless to say this is no longer the case.
 

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A boat plys the oceans traveling from port to port. While it faces wind, weather, tides, it goes where it wants to go, does what it needs to do. Try its best, the outside world doesn't dictate what it should do and where it should go.

Its a boat, its not a piece of driftwood. The driftwood just floats there, taking everything the world will give it, going where someone else pleases, never taking control, never determining its own destiny.

Men, be the boat, don't be the driftwood. Just ignore the bullshhit
 

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scrouds said:
A boat plys the oceans traveling from port to port. While it faces wind, weather, tides, it goes where it wants to go, does what it needs to do. Try its best, the outside world doesn't dictate what it should do and where it should go.

Its a boat, its not a piece of driftwood. The driftwood just floats there, taking everything the world will give it, going where someone else pleases, never taking control, never determining its own destiny.

Men, be the boat, don't be the driftwood. Just ignore the bullshhit
Super solid advice.

Other great advice in this thread too.

Man rich and robust with collective experience and knowledge, fvcking love it.
 

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Dear MDJ,
Keep these posts coming!....."I like to date Eastern European women. Does this make me a mysogonist,creep?"....No dear Boy certainly not a Creep,though a realist perhaps...As to being mysogonist?I would say Selectively...But MD,please forgive my familiarity...Eastern European Women,particularly Russians become big Mommas,great for digging spuds,and heaving bags of wheat,but not for you....Be adventurous,try Far Eastern Women....No Religious hang ups,their genetics and diet keep them slim,in the cot they are just soo tight,that doesn't worry you now,but in ten years?...As to their being money grubbers?well in this respect,they are generally all "Sisters under the skin".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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