"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are all girls Crazy??

Dannyrt34

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I'm getting pretty dam frustrated. Seems like every girl I met in the past year ended up being crazy one way or another. Has anyone met a normal girl?? Do they exist?? Where do they exist?? These crazy girls act like I'm married to them after like 3 dates, which sends me running for the hills.

All I'm looking for is a potential relationship that we can take SLOWLY and see each other maybe once or twice a week. But no, that's not good enough for most girls. Ugh lol, I'm about to take another break from dating.

Has anyone seen the extremely rare normal girl yet?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, there all crazy.

In 1 way or another.
 

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lmao, IMO it seems like most girls are crazy in some way. Could be anything, personal issues, trust issues, crazy sluts, lol. I do think it's rare to find a girl that has her **** together, most of them are in relationships.

Personally I'm gonna stop looking for a relationship and just have fun.
 

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I really can't stand the ones that want to talk on the phone every 5 minutes. Then send evil texts if you don't answer.. Sorry, Danny has more important things to do haha.
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
I really can't stand the ones that want to talk on the phone every 5 minutes. Then send evil texts if you don't answer.. Sorry, Danny has more important things to do haha.
haha...but most really are crazy one way or the other. just learn how to avoid the coo coo ones if possible
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kal0051

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lol, how bout the ones that get knocked up by some guy within a month of knowing him. Lmao, long story, the short is she'll probably end up with 2 kids from 2 different guys and the guy that just knocked her up won't stick around (heard he already has 2 kids with 2 different women).
 

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like the dude above said, best to stop looking for a relationship and just have fun. i'm trying to stay positive but i dont see anything but 'crazy' chicks around here.
 

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what is normal anyways, I mean normal for you may be completly crazy to anothe individial.


I mean I "think" I'm normal, but guys are always telling me that I have issues/crazy.

So you need to decide what you can and cannot put up with.

I have personally excepted that we ALL have our issues and that we are all SOME what crazy (given the circumstance), it just comes down to what you can handle.
 

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Yes we all do have our issues but at least some of us try and work on them. For what I can tell most women don't try and work on their faults, they have this entitlement mentality where they believe things should be given to them just because they are women (notice I said most, some women are actually good human beings). But anyway, not trying to trash women, just what I've encountered.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Since guys are always willing to "tap that", there can't be anything wrong with THEM. They don't feel the need to improve.
 

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Yes but learn their ways and use their craziness against them.

Your attention is your currency. They NEED your attention to feel good about themselves.

When she's acting up, pull back or walk away. When she cries or whines about it call her on her BS. Ask her why you should spend time with her if she's acting like that. Your time isn't to be wasted.

As for the ones getting too clingy too fast you have to let them know from the get-go that you are an extremely busy guy. You really don't even have time for dating or girlfriends. It's somewhat of an inconvenience for you. Make her feel lucky to get any time with you at all.

All women are crazy. Your goal is to have several of them all waiting in the wings and totally crazy about you.
 
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