Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are all girls Crazy??

Dannyrt34

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I'm getting pretty dam frustrated. Seems like every girl I met in the past year ended up being crazy one way or another. Has anyone met a normal girl?? Do they exist?? Where do they exist?? These crazy girls act like I'm married to them after like 3 dates, which sends me running for the hills.

All I'm looking for is a potential relationship that we can take SLOWLY and see each other maybe once or twice a week. But no, that's not good enough for most girls. Ugh lol, I'm about to take another break from dating.

Has anyone seen the extremely rare normal girl yet?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ease

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No, there all crazy.

In 1 way or another.
 

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lmao, IMO it seems like most girls are crazy in some way. Could be anything, personal issues, trust issues, crazy sluts, lol. I do think it's rare to find a girl that has her **** together, most of them are in relationships.

Personally I'm gonna stop looking for a relationship and just have fun.
 

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I really can't stand the ones that want to talk on the phone every 5 minutes. Then send evil texts if you don't answer.. Sorry, Danny has more important things to do haha.
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
I really can't stand the ones that want to talk on the phone every 5 minutes. Then send evil texts if you don't answer.. Sorry, Danny has more important things to do haha.
haha...but most really are crazy one way or the other. just learn how to avoid the coo coo ones if possible
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kal0051

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lol, how bout the ones that get knocked up by some guy within a month of knowing him. Lmao, long story, the short is she'll probably end up with 2 kids from 2 different guys and the guy that just knocked her up won't stick around (heard he already has 2 kids with 2 different women).
 

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like the dude above said, best to stop looking for a relationship and just have fun. i'm trying to stay positive but i dont see anything but 'crazy' chicks around here.
 

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what is normal anyways, I mean normal for you may be completly crazy to anothe individial.


I mean I "think" I'm normal, but guys are always telling me that I have issues/crazy.

So you need to decide what you can and cannot put up with.

I have personally excepted that we ALL have our issues and that we are all SOME what crazy (given the circumstance), it just comes down to what you can handle.
 

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Yes we all do have our issues but at least some of us try and work on them. For what I can tell most women don't try and work on their faults, they have this entitlement mentality where they believe things should be given to them just because they are women (notice I said most, some women are actually good human beings). But anyway, not trying to trash women, just what I've encountered.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since guys are always willing to "tap that", there can't be anything wrong with THEM. They don't feel the need to improve.
 

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Yes but learn their ways and use their craziness against them.

Your attention is your currency. They NEED your attention to feel good about themselves.

When she's acting up, pull back or walk away. When she cries or whines about it call her on her BS. Ask her why you should spend time with her if she's acting like that. Your time isn't to be wasted.

As for the ones getting too clingy too fast you have to let them know from the get-go that you are an extremely busy guy. You really don't even have time for dating or girlfriends. It's somewhat of an inconvenience for you. Make her feel lucky to get any time with you at all.

All women are crazy. Your goal is to have several of them all waiting in the wings and totally crazy about you.
 
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