"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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you may see a girl at a party that you do not know, and aproch her this would genrally be becuase you fele attracted to her. What i want to know, and this may seme like na obvious question but i just want a second oppinion, if girls aproch you, is it for the same reason or could it just be a randome thing?

this question sprung to mind when i heared some of the girls talking about bodylanguage the same as i have seen mentioned in the quick tips at which point i new they must be looking at websites like these or equivelent ones for girls because being able to brake down and read some one elses body language does not seem like sometihng many people could pick up on there own with out research!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PeeGee

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Doesn't matter -- if she's hot, get her digits/hit on her/do your magic. I have yet to find a woman who will go further than initiating a conversation as a means to 'hit' on you.
 

Knicknack

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first of all, mix in a spelling class every now and then.

and no, girls do not need lessons on body language. girls are 100000% better at reading subtle signs and interpreting body language. hell, they invented the use of body language. go to any bar and watch how girls respond when they are annoyed with a guy.
 

The Scoot

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I second that. Girls are so much better at reading body language than guys are.

And when it comes to girls approaching you, just look at it as if its a normal person who would like to be aquainted with you. Except in this case, you need to get the digits! She may be interested in you, she may not. But go for the digits anyway, and if she gives them, she's definitely interested.
 
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