"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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you may see a girl at a party that you do not know, and aproch her this would genrally be becuase you fele attracted to her. What i want to know, and this may seme like na obvious question but i just want a second oppinion, if girls aproch you, is it for the same reason or could it just be a randome thing?

this question sprung to mind when i heared some of the girls talking about bodylanguage the same as i have seen mentioned in the quick tips at which point i new they must be looking at websites like these or equivelent ones for girls because being able to brake down and read some one elses body language does not seem like sometihng many people could pick up on there own with out research!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PeeGee

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Doesn't matter -- if she's hot, get her digits/hit on her/do your magic. I have yet to find a woman who will go further than initiating a conversation as a means to 'hit' on you.
 

Knicknack

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first of all, mix in a spelling class every now and then.

and no, girls do not need lessons on body language. girls are 100000% better at reading subtle signs and interpreting body language. hell, they invented the use of body language. go to any bar and watch how girls respond when they are annoyed with a guy.
 

The Scoot

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I second that. Girls are so much better at reading body language than guys are.

And when it comes to girls approaching you, just look at it as if its a normal person who would like to be aquainted with you. Except in this case, you need to get the digits! She may be interested in you, she may not. But go for the digits anyway, and if she gives them, she's definitely interested.
 
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