"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt

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I still don't have a smartphone, but I finally got bluestacks running on my pc. I just started playing around with a few apps.

Tinder - this is getting old quickly. You are not allowed to see anyone who is your fb friend, and you can only post pics that are public pics on fb. And fb does not let you post pics and hide them from everyone's news feed, which is annoying.

Blendr - what is the difference between this and tinder?

Hot or Not - It's less annoying than Tinder, but I'm not sure how to message and meet people yet.

Whisper - wtf? I read this app's users are 70% female. You're supposed to make anonymous confessions on it.

Pure? - still don't understand this one: http://www.getpure.org/en/

Snapchat & KIK I know are messaging apps. I don't know how to meet people on them

Mixxxer - won't let me upload pics through bluestacks.

I'm sure there are more. If you are getting laid off these or others, I 'appsalutely' want to hear about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zinc4

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Scout is a decent app...you can message a lot very quickly with a ton of choices....
 

Bible_Belt

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I can't get Tinder to work on Bluestacks. Blendr works, though. It looks like the same thing. Hot or Not is also almost exactly the same thing.

I actually like Whisper, once I set it to my school, the local university. You can see people griping about the town and the college. I see a lot of guys trying to use it to pickup women, and they just have no clue. They make posts like "Anyone interested in a 21 y/o male?"

It doesn't matter the venue, whether it's going out to a bar or a dating app, I always cringe when I see guys try to hit on women.

I saw a whisper post by a woman that said "I love dominating men." There were six replies, all by guys. Five of them were saying things like "hot" and "pick me!" The sixth was the one that cracked me up: Shut up and do my laundry.
 
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