"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bible_Belt

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I still don't have a smartphone, but I finally got bluestacks running on my pc. I just started playing around with a few apps.

Tinder - this is getting old quickly. You are not allowed to see anyone who is your fb friend, and you can only post pics that are public pics on fb. And fb does not let you post pics and hide them from everyone's news feed, which is annoying.

Blendr - what is the difference between this and tinder?

Hot or Not - It's less annoying than Tinder, but I'm not sure how to message and meet people yet.

Whisper - wtf? I read this app's users are 70% female. You're supposed to make anonymous confessions on it.

Pure? - still don't understand this one: http://www.getpure.org/en/

Snapchat & KIK I know are messaging apps. I don't know how to meet people on them

Mixxxer - won't let me upload pics through bluestacks.

I'm sure there are more. If you are getting laid off these or others, I 'appsalutely' want to hear about it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Scout is a decent app...you can message a lot very quickly with a ton of choices....
 

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I can't get Tinder to work on Bluestacks. Blendr works, though. It looks like the same thing. Hot or Not is also almost exactly the same thing.

I actually like Whisper, once I set it to my school, the local university. You can see people griping about the town and the college. I see a lot of guys trying to use it to pickup women, and they just have no clue. They make posts like "Anyone interested in a 21 y/o male?"

It doesn't matter the venue, whether it's going out to a bar or a dating app, I always cringe when I see guys try to hit on women.

I saw a whisper post by a woman that said "I love dominating men." There were six replies, all by guys. Five of them were saying things like "hot" and "pick me!" The sixth was the one that cracked me up: Shut up and do my laundry.
 
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