"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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el hombre 44

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i know this might seeem lame to ask, but i was gonna approach this girl on my bus today, and everytime i get close i chicken out for some reason and i regret it at the end. my fear somehow takes over me. what can i do to get rid of this fear? its rly bothering me. yes i read the bible and i am still having some trouble.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anomalous

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Ok, papi chulo.

De donde eres?

Just clear your mind. Don't think because this will only make you back down. Clear your mind and say "Hi" before you even have time to debate whethere you should approach or not.

Just like Nike...........Just do it.
 

wanga

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You should first go out and get comfortable talking to people, as you know practice makes perfect.

Go to a mall, say hello to everyone you see, dont think ... just do.

I'm in the process of writing an ebook and I have some stuff from it available.. about the first 10 pages which pretty much cover what you need to know.

Basically what you'll want to do is practice approaching and opening a bit... approach her keeping eye contact and say "hey" with a voice thats sure, dont sound frightened.

Make a comment about the environment, the bus... whatever or ask her a questionm this is all up to you..

You can check out the book here: www.wangas.info/wangas-AFCmethod.pdf it's free and stuff.
 

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Awsome stuff wanga :up: . Are you writting a book or a e-book?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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