"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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el hombre 44

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i know this might seeem lame to ask, but i was gonna approach this girl on my bus today, and everytime i get close i chicken out for some reason and i regret it at the end. my fear somehow takes over me. what can i do to get rid of this fear? its rly bothering me. yes i read the bible and i am still having some trouble.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anomalous

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Ok, papi chulo.

De donde eres?

Just clear your mind. Don't think because this will only make you back down. Clear your mind and say "Hi" before you even have time to debate whethere you should approach or not.

Just like Nike...........Just do it.
 

wanga

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You should first go out and get comfortable talking to people, as you know practice makes perfect.

Go to a mall, say hello to everyone you see, dont think ... just do.

I'm in the process of writing an ebook and I have some stuff from it available.. about the first 10 pages which pretty much cover what you need to know.

Basically what you'll want to do is practice approaching and opening a bit... approach her keeping eye contact and say "hey" with a voice thats sure, dont sound frightened.

Make a comment about the environment, the bus... whatever or ask her a questionm this is all up to you..

You can check out the book here: www.wangas.info/wangas-AFCmethod.pdf it's free and stuff.
 

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Awsome stuff wanga :up: . Are you writting a book or a e-book?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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