Approaching

[rdzntz422.MYZ]

This is good but i would leave the tattoo chat until later on , only because people usually get tattoos to symbolise something and if you ask about them straight off the bat you will get a surface level answer

If you do it after some trust / rapport has been built you usually get a much more in depth answer and obviously conversation expansions from there

I always try to leave the " what do you do" question as long as i possibly can because it's so boring and almost always ensures someone goes into work mode which with a woman is not what you want

Try to use phrases like

How do you feel about .....

I am really passionate about ....

Have you had any experiences with....

Tell me how you would handle ......

Are you open too ...

These are often far better than using generic interview questions especially with women

Meant to respond earlier but was busy. Thanks, I hate asking regular and boring questions. I can talk to a girl and not have it be akward, and sometimes she'll really enjoy talking to me, but sometimes talking to some women (especially airheaded girls) feels soooo bland.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Quickly getting rejected is good because you are saving valuable time.

Say "Hi!" with a relaxed nonchalant smile and upright body posture.

Wait, gauge her reaction, pause. Stay nonchalant.

"Do you like it here?/Do you come here often?" works for me.

Follow up by.

"Oh, I'm guessing you're from around here"

Listen, use pauses, don't fill up the pauses hold eye contact. Judge her reaction/enthusiasm.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My favorite for bars/clubs was to get to talking about what she was drinking. Quite often, that would progress to each of us sipping each other’s drink. And then things got interesting. However, that was pre-Covid. Drink sharing might be tougher now.

 

[B80]

My favorite for bars/clubs was to get to talking about what she was drinking. Quite often, that would progress to each of us sipping each other’s drink. And then things got interesting. However, that was pre-Covid. Drink sharing might be tougher now.

Could offer to try out each others masks?