"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Realthangpoon

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Just ran into a girl I ‘knew’ (we know eachother’s faces, or atleast I knew hers if you get my drift) from a previous job. I was almost gonna chicken out of approaching her because she’s almost scary attractive - TV actress, huge tiktok following, all the options in the world, blabla you get the picture.

Then I thought of this thread. She sat down next to me and we talked for about 30 mins - she was actually down to earth and she hinted at meeting up when the bars are open. Moral of the story, turns out these beautiful women are human after all. get yourself out there, who knows what happens.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guy69JackBlue

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Just ran into a girl I ‘knew’ (we know eachother’s faces, or atleast I knew hers if you get my drift) from a previous job. I was almost gonna chicken out of approaching her because she’s almost scary attractive - TV actress, huge tiktok following, all the options in the world, blabla you get the picture.

Then I thought of this thread. She sat down next to me and we talked for about 30 mins - she was actually down to earth and she hinted at meeting up when the bars are open. Moral of the story, turns out these beautiful women are human after all. get yourself out there, who knows what happens.
Pic?
 

DontThinkTwice

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Am in the same boat, Sam. I am working through the DJ Boot Camp if you've taken a look at that, but I can use some help/advice on approaching strangers still.

@Realthangpoon You don't need to explain why you aren't going to show some weirdo online a pic of a girl you're into.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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This is a good mental state to be in. Thanks for that.
I will go 1 further. Approach every baeeeee as you would had you already smashed rotten and nut on her face. 0 ****s given. already got mine.

Pull or next. it's all about compliance. shout out to Mystery. the fundamentals of Game is to approach and test compliance. the game has changed since MM but fundamentals are still gold.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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