Approaching Women

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

I am going bowling with my friends tonight, where a lot of girls joke around, bowl, and some even work there. For the first time, I'd like to test my skills on some some these strangers. I am a junior in high school, so these girls are prly around the age of 15-18. When I approach a couple tonight, how should I handle it and what are some examples of what I should do. I would also like to get a few numbers, but I don't think I have the courage to go for that. Can anyone help me and let me know what I should do with some tips and mock examples--Thanks!

Also, I tend to overanalyze the situation and keep telling myself "Mike, she is too good for you." Or "Mike she is out of your league, you will get rejected in a second." How do I stop telling myself that. I also have been working on my C + F routine and I like it, but I still need more work. How do I throw some in my gaame when I go out tonight and HOPE I DO APPROACH some girls and get a few numbers?

Mike

 

[Kev07]

don't think, just do, don't even think about what you might say, because the only thing you should start with is "hi my name is chicks just dig me" and go from there. Unless of course you see her doing somethign that you can completely comment on, then you can just comment then introduce yourself

getting numbers should not be your main concern if this is your first time, trust me a lot of your conversatinos will be short and awkward. just introduce yourself and make comments about the place etc.

anyways you should be trying to get comfortable talking to strangers, and do this everywhere, and djing will come to you.

 

[edmond]

Depends on how you look. if you are not toooooo ugly, then there is no reason to be afraid.
Just think that their sh*t stinks as well.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

How will I bring in the ****y and Funny for them not to think I am a jerk? I intoduce myself, then what I can bust on? Any previous experience examples i can have please.

 

[Boschy]

It's a bit like the chicken and egg thing: what came first?

You want to be confident and make a good impression, but you won't have that unless you have some experience. Therefore I agree with Kev07 and just aim for small victories. When I was your age I was completely useless. Be glad you're able to get advice and be aware that it's just a skills gap that needs to be bridged, nothing to with personal shortcomings.

If you are a natural, then good on ya. But I say just make small talk and get relaxaed around them first. They will probably be just as anxious, if not more so. Then when you are relaxed, look for opportunities to make them laugh or charm them. Try basic kino, etc.

Again, don't aim too high. They need to remember you afterward in a positive light, that's all. If you get interest from one sheila, get her e-mail or IM or phone number. You can do it, man! You are the prize.

:rockon:

 

[Kev07]

****y and funny is impossible to preplan, if you preplan that kind of stuff you're just asking for failure.

the comments have to be on what she's doing that might be a little ridiculous, or environmental.

also remember to smile or else you'll just freak them out.