"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Approaching the HBs: Help.

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I am intimidated to approach this hb 8.5, and hb 9 on good days. She says "hi" whenever we directly bump into each other, but never comes up to me. I saw her standing with her friend next to a wall in front of a classroom door-- classes ended for her already. She just glanced at me; maybe, she didn't even notice me. But in any case, I couldn't approach. The key to it all is to start out smoothy and confidently, or the lines are garbage.

I could say "hi" in a monotone, looking like a loser; or say "heyy" with a sexy wink, in a jocular gesture and break the ice.

Plus, when I see her she's around her friend(s). She knows I had interest in her in the past--she gave me her screenname a year ago, but she had a boyfriend at that time so I moved on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just look at her like any of your guy friends or sister. Your mind is playing games with you and intimidating you. If you think she's just another friend, it'll be easy for you. Just walk up to her and say "hey" with excitement. Don't Overdo it though.

Are you in any classes with her? If you are, that'll make it a lot easier to break the ice. Talk to her, write notes to each other in class...and once you feel comfortable, approach her when she's w/ her friends.
 
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But she's HOT! It's hard to see her as friend; besides I don't have any class with her anymore, so it's hard to get reacquainted.
 
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