"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approaching the HBs: Help.

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I am intimidated to approach this hb 8.5, and hb 9 on good days. She says "hi" whenever we directly bump into each other, but never comes up to me. I saw her standing with her friend next to a wall in front of a classroom door-- classes ended for her already. She just glanced at me; maybe, she didn't even notice me. But in any case, I couldn't approach. The key to it all is to start out smoothy and confidently, or the lines are garbage.

I could say "hi" in a monotone, looking like a loser; or say "heyy" with a sexy wink, in a jocular gesture and break the ice.

Plus, when I see her she's around her friend(s). She knows I had interest in her in the past--she gave me her screenname a year ago, but she had a boyfriend at that time so I moved on.
 

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Just look at her like any of your guy friends or sister. Your mind is playing games with you and intimidating you. If you think she's just another friend, it'll be easy for you. Just walk up to her and say "hey" with excitement. Don't Overdo it though.

Are you in any classes with her? If you are, that'll make it a lot easier to break the ice. Talk to her, write notes to each other in class...and once you feel comfortable, approach her when she's w/ her friends.
 
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But she's HOT! It's hard to see her as friend; besides I don't have any class with her anymore, so it's hard to get reacquainted.
 
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