"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Approaching someone new?

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I've recently gotten involved with the community and have been trying to sarge as much as I can.

Anyway, there's this girl in my school who I want to talk to. I don't want to screw it up though - so I want to sarge for a while longer until I'm confident enough to talk to her.

The problem is that, she's a few years older than me, she hangs out with a different group of people than I do (I don't know any of her friends) and I've never talked to her before. I only see her every other day at our lunch break and I'm not sure how I should go about approaching without seeming weird.

Thanks. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go ahead man I know it seems hard but you got to do it. I done this plenty of times in high schools and trust me if you wait someone else will just pick her up. Put all the excuses to the side, all the worries and just remember that you as you are right now are capable.
 
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Daddy The Pimp said:
She's new on your school ? " Whats up .. Are u enjoying this school ? im in charge to make u enjoy this a lot more :D " . something like this .. than move to PEOPLE HERE ARE FRIENDLY and something like this if u dont have what to talk ..

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Ah, I probably wasn't too clear. She's not new, she just hangs out in a totally different social circle than I do.

Thanks for the advice though, both of you. :)
 
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