"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Approaching someone new?

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I've recently gotten involved with the community and have been trying to sarge as much as I can.

Anyway, there's this girl in my school who I want to talk to. I don't want to screw it up though - so I want to sarge for a while longer until I'm confident enough to talk to her.

The problem is that, she's a few years older than me, she hangs out with a different group of people than I do (I don't know any of her friends) and I've never talked to her before. I only see her every other day at our lunch break and I'm not sure how I should go about approaching without seeming weird.

Thanks. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go ahead man I know it seems hard but you got to do it. I done this plenty of times in high schools and trust me if you wait someone else will just pick her up. Put all the excuses to the side, all the worries and just remember that you as you are right now are capable.
 
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Daddy The Pimp said:
She's new on your school ? " Whats up .. Are u enjoying this school ? im in charge to make u enjoy this a lot more :D " . something like this .. than move to PEOPLE HERE ARE FRIENDLY and something like this if u dont have what to talk ..

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Ah, I probably wasn't too clear. She's not new, she just hangs out in a totally different social circle than I do.

Thanks for the advice though, both of you. :)
 
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