"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Approaching Singles - Gone Bad

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evolvingnerd

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hi
today i approached this chick in the shoping centre who was eating "by herself" and i strolled up, asked to sit down and started some small talk about the ice rink we were looking over
and then about 30 seconds into the convo, 3 of her friends came over ( they had been queieing for food) and kinda "**** blocked" me i guess the term is.
i got all flustered and just backed out

any tips?
it seems i can only approach the single chicks, whether they be bythemselves in a lecture theatre or in the shops or whatever
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ_Dork

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There's nothing creepier than some random chick coming up to me and starts talking about anything.

Vice versa.
 
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You shouldn't just see a hottie and say to yourself "Hmmmm... I'm going to walk up and talk to her even if it's completely random and with no heads up or presidence." You've got to make a connection with a girl before you actually talk to her. It could be as simple as, you're in the same line buying a movie ticket and the line is moving slow, or eating at the same resturaunt. If there's nothing that you can find to play off of then just use eye contact, that forms enough of a connection to actually give you the go ahead to talk to a girl. It's not the best way but it's better than being completely random. That's just... like DJ Dork said "creepy". Cmon man, it's a game, you've got to plan your first move, it's the most important as girls decide in the first 1-3 minutes of meeting you wether you would be good in bed, a good boyfriend, or a nobody.
Stop... Think... Absorb...
 
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well i was takling about the instance when we were both in maccas
she had some stuff in front of her and i walked over with my tray
but thanks for the heads up anyways
 
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