"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approaching other women infront of female aquaintances?

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Konada

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Has anyone done it? It seems like this is one situation that would take major balls to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well I've got into a conversation with a girl I've never met before infront of a female acquaintance (see the week 2 Don Juan bootcamp thread)...didn't really bother me because I never thought "oh no, this will be awkward, what will the acquaintance think of me??".

Having said that, it might even be a GOOD thing because other girls might get jealous/competitive.

Change your mindset...it's not a "omg this is difficult and will take balls" situation. It's a "hey this will be fun AND female acquaintances will realise that I AM THE GREAT CATCH and that my time/availability is valuable" situation.
 
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Happens all the time. If she is an acquaintance, why do you care what she thinks? If you want to game a women, then game her. If your attracted to the acquaintance, then game her.

This topic is black and white, and yet you make it harder by making it gray.
 
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Diaforetikos said:
Happens all the time. If she is an acquaintance, why do you care what she thinks? If you want to game a women, then game her. If your attracted to the acquaintance, then game her.

This topic is black and white, and yet you make it harder by making it gray.
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Exactly! It may raise your value in front of your acquaintances, she may get jealous/competitive and up her interest level in you. Win Win situation here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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