"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Approaching other women infront of female aquaintances?

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Konada

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Has anyone done it? It seems like this is one situation that would take major balls to do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well I've got into a conversation with a girl I've never met before infront of a female acquaintance (see the week 2 Don Juan bootcamp thread)...didn't really bother me because I never thought "oh no, this will be awkward, what will the acquaintance think of me??".

Having said that, it might even be a GOOD thing because other girls might get jealous/competitive.

Change your mindset...it's not a "omg this is difficult and will take balls" situation. It's a "hey this will be fun AND female acquaintances will realise that I AM THE GREAT CATCH and that my time/availability is valuable" situation.
 
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Happens all the time. If she is an acquaintance, why do you care what she thinks? If you want to game a women, then game her. If your attracted to the acquaintance, then game her.

This topic is black and white, and yet you make it harder by making it gray.
 
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Diaforetikos said:
Happens all the time. If she is an acquaintance, why do you care what she thinks? If you want to game a women, then game her. If your attracted to the acquaintance, then game her.

This topic is black and white, and yet you make it harder by making it gray.
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Exactly! It may raise your value in front of your acquaintances, she may get jealous/competitive and up her interest level in you. Win Win situation here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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