"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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approaching older girls and emails

soccer128

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ok guys i have a quick question (story included):

today I was at a clothing store and i saw a cute hb8 employee. I thought i might as well practice my dj skills and i walked up and asked her " what jeans look better 1 or 2?" She gave me her opinion and i said somthing funny and we started talking. We had heavy eye contact ( I could tell she was into me) we kept talking for about 20 min. So we get around to the topic of school. So she turns out to be in university. When she asks me i name the highschool i go to. suddenly she goes all cold.( I think she did that because I was younger.) So i ask for her email and she replies with i dont have a pen. so i grab one and ask her, she hesitates and i said " ok its ok if you dont want to give me your email." and i left. the end.

ok heres the question. what should have i said when she asked what school i was from just before i found out she was older?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dj ben2

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i always ask how old they are first and if say im a year older then thye are if they are more then 3 years older i usually say oh me too even if they dont believe you because in the youth years girls dont seem to like younger guys =(
 

djweses89

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one thing why did you ask for a email instead of a number? another thing is what grade are you in cus if your like 11th grade yea i can see why she was like that and also for her that would be illegal dude.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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she was pissed cuz she digged u, and u were too young for her, so she knew she could never have u :rockon:
 
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