"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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approaching older girls and emails

soccer128

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ok guys i have a quick question (story included):

today I was at a clothing store and i saw a cute hb8 employee. I thought i might as well practice my dj skills and i walked up and asked her " what jeans look better 1 or 2?" She gave me her opinion and i said somthing funny and we started talking. We had heavy eye contact ( I could tell she was into me) we kept talking for about 20 min. So we get around to the topic of school. So she turns out to be in university. When she asks me i name the highschool i go to. suddenly she goes all cold.( I think she did that because I was younger.) So i ask for her email and she replies with i dont have a pen. so i grab one and ask her, she hesitates and i said " ok its ok if you dont want to give me your email." and i left. the end.

ok heres the question. what should have i said when she asked what school i was from just before i found out she was older?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dj ben2

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i always ask how old they are first and if say im a year older then thye are if they are more then 3 years older i usually say oh me too even if they dont believe you because in the youth years girls dont seem to like younger guys =(
 

djweses89

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one thing why did you ask for a email instead of a number? another thing is what grade are you in cus if your like 11th grade yea i can see why she was like that and also for her that would be illegal dude.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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she was pissed cuz she digged u, and u were too young for her, so she knew she could never have u :rockon:
 
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