"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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approaching multiple women at once

BongDuy

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we all know how girls tend to wander in packs, so im wondering how do you approach a group of women (2+) when you are only interested in one? how do you prevent their friends from getting getting in the way?

Ex: You're at a pool, three girls are sitting and talking to each other, how do you approach this?

Ex: You're in a store, and you see two girls close together, looking at whatever together as well
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Allurre

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Approach always with enthusiasm and confidence. If it helps, just imagine them as 3 little kids -- that way you won't be intimidated by the 'pack-aura'

Anyways, an opinion opener always works for me.

At a store...

"Hey ladies, I've got a question, what would you recommend as a present around here?"

Women love sharing the opinions, and once you collect their answers, thank them, warmly introduce yourself then say "let's keep in touch".

Right after, go for the least attractive of the pack for her e-mail. Then, proceed to your pick.
 

mtlwlu

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yep I was going to say the same thing, when i approach a group of girls i always talk to the least attractive one, that way it lets the others guards down and they start to question "why isnt he talking to me" etc...girls are jealous creatures especially amongst their friends. Talk to the ugly one for a bit and then make your way to your pick. Works 9/10 times for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Scoot

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Just swim up to them and with a big smile say "this must be where all the hot girls swim at!" They should get all giggly if you pull it off right. Then say "I'm Scoot, what are your names?"

One thing I've learned from hanging out with a veteran DJ is to always be very enthusiastic and smiling. It shows that you love life and like to have fun. I used to talk in a lifeless tone of voice, but now I talk with a more enthusiastic, positive voice. It makes a huge difference, because people tend to mirror the way you talk to them. They mirror your tone of voice, facial expressions, etc. And when you approach, make sure its a big smile, because everyone looks good when they're smiling!
 
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