"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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approaching multiple women at once

BongDuy

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we all know how girls tend to wander in packs, so im wondering how do you approach a group of women (2+) when you are only interested in one? how do you prevent their friends from getting getting in the way?

Ex: You're at a pool, three girls are sitting and talking to each other, how do you approach this?

Ex: You're in a store, and you see two girls close together, looking at whatever together as well
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Allurre

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Approach always with enthusiasm and confidence. If it helps, just imagine them as 3 little kids -- that way you won't be intimidated by the 'pack-aura'

Anyways, an opinion opener always works for me.

At a store...

"Hey ladies, I've got a question, what would you recommend as a present around here?"

Women love sharing the opinions, and once you collect their answers, thank them, warmly introduce yourself then say "let's keep in touch".

Right after, go for the least attractive of the pack for her e-mail. Then, proceed to your pick.
 

mtlwlu

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yep I was going to say the same thing, when i approach a group of girls i always talk to the least attractive one, that way it lets the others guards down and they start to question "why isnt he talking to me" etc...girls are jealous creatures especially amongst their friends. Talk to the ugly one for a bit and then make your way to your pick. Works 9/10 times for me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Scoot

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Just swim up to them and with a big smile say "this must be where all the hot girls swim at!" They should get all giggly if you pull it off right. Then say "I'm Scoot, what are your names?"

One thing I've learned from hanging out with a veteran DJ is to always be very enthusiastic and smiling. It shows that you love life and like to have fun. I used to talk in a lifeless tone of voice, but now I talk with a more enthusiastic, positive voice. It makes a huge difference, because people tend to mirror the way you talk to them. They mirror your tone of voice, facial expressions, etc. And when you approach, make sure its a big smile, because everyone looks good when they're smiling!
 
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