"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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approaching is all about willpower. Everyone is nervous

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habdragon08

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Everybody is just as scared as you when you first making an approach. Everybody chickened out 5 times before actually doing it. I know I did, atleast.

Approaching a girl is kind of like taking a plunge into a VERY cold pool(or taking a cold shower). The more you do it, you still feel scared, you still feel uncomfortable when you actually do it, just the more you do it, the more you are aware of how its going to feel and all the positive outcomes. You know you have to do it sooner or later, and if you dont have the willpower to do it, you might as well go home, smoke a pack of cigarettes and jack off.





And Yes, cold showers do have good side effects.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's a human being.

You're a human being.

She's a female.

You're a male.

Males and females were uniquely designed for each other.

Go talk to her.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Incog said:
She's a human being.

You're a human being.

She's a female.

You're a male.

Males and females were uniquely designed for each other.

Go talk to her.
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Gotta love the simplicity of it. :up:

BTW habdragon08, willpower is always fleeting.
 
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