Approaching in Convenience and Grocery Store Aisles

[Scot McKay]

1) Go the opposite direction down the aisle that she is. After the third time passing each other, say "OK...are you going to talk to me, or are you just a stalker?"

2) Say "You know it's not good for you to be here in the frozen food section. You could MELT all this STUFF."

3) Meet her in the juice aisle, hold up a bottle of Welch's and say, "Hey, can I buy you a drink?"


Or, you could just ask her if the brand of cereal she's picking is any good, and take it from there.

Ironically, I once asked a woman I wasn't really attracted to this very question because I was seriously wondering. Then I couldn't get her to shut up and keep shopping. Wow. Proceed with caution.

 

[Scot McKay]

BTW, Frank. Get to know Big Will H. from www.youaresoinmyway.com. He's your man. Dude has complete mastery over exactly what you are dealing with.

He's a friend of mine and I can tell you he's 100% the real deal.

 

[Frank2500]

Re:

Scot McKay, thanks for your response. And to the poster "Skirtchaser," I found your response to my post quite offensive. This is a free country and I have the right to dress anyhow I want. Neither you nor anyone else has the right to judge me on the basis of what I'm wearing. In addition, you're not in every woman's mind to know what she might be thinking. As far as the big black guy stereotype goes, I personally don't even consider myslef that big at all. I may be kind of huge, but that shows more when I wear certain kinds of T-shirts and stuff. I'm only about 178-180lbs and 6'0...there are guys who are way bigger than that...I don't know, I don't really consider that as big.

To the other poster who said he's not into big butts, I here you man, and I definitely respect that. But I can't help it. I love women with big butts...if only a few more of them who fit that description were humble. I remember a MILF I had talked to several months ago who had three kids, even though things didn't work out because each time I tried to set up a date with her, her kids held her back. She was Hispanic and I met her at a mall. Her butt and hips were so big that when she sat on one of the seats at the food court, which were all really small to accomodate her considering the size of her ass, I actually thought she was going to break the chair...and I found that very appealing and attractive. I just couldn't help talking to her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

My ex told me that black guys scare her. I didn't ask her to elaborate, but I assume it's the stereotype. She's asian, btw.

Bill Cosby, Tiger Woods, Gary Coleman, Barack Obama...

Mike Tyson, OJ Simpson, Al Sharpton, Lewis Farrakhan...

Hmmm.....

For that matter;

Pope Benedict, Hugh Grant, Bill Gates, Ryan Seacrest....

Jeffery Dahlmer, David Duke, Danny Bonaduce, George Bush...

Makes 'ya wonder how some people get the courage to leave their homes each morning.

 

[Todd Preston]

I know the thread is old...but you guys screwed up a good subejct.

Hijacking a thread on grocery store pu....into some black dudes problem with scarring women.

bah ahahhhaa!

 

[Powerlifter]

Yeah, I am sure the morons didn't know that then again morons hijack threads to do just that hijack for they are morons.

I suggest ignore it but maybe since your the stud and seen that maybe you can contribute something good and make the thread so much better.

The forum looks forward to your contribution.

Powerlifter

I know the thread is old...but you guys screwed up a good subejct.

Hijacking a thread on grocery store pu....into some black dudes problem with scarring women.

bah ahahhhaa!

 

[tihash]

To add something on-point:

I do a lot of cold approaching, and I find grocery stores to be awful. Many women move fast, and it to me is much more difficult to maintain a conversation in a grocery store than in a regular store (Target, Wal-Mart) and regular stores are more difficult than bookstores.

Having said that, what makes anything easier is practice. So when you see that HB in the paper towel aisle, APPROACH. Do let any opportunity pass you by. But I think the mainstream "dating" articles you see here and there about meeting people in grocery stores are drivel. There are much easier daytime venues.