"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Approaching in a library

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I've been noticing a girl who has been establishing long IE whenever we see each other in the library.

Whats the best way to approach a girl who is sitting quietly in a library either reading or studying?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Here's a couple of options you can use. I've field tested the first one and it's worked for me. The second option I haven't tried before but I saw someone else do it.


1). Walk up to the table she is sitting at and sit down across from her. Ask her if she minds if you study there. She'll most likely give some sort of positive answer. From there you can start up a convo (what are you studying, I've got a huge math test on Friday, what about you?,etc).

2). I've actually seen someone at the library use this one. He went up to the chick and asked to borrow her highlighter and then he came back with it later, started a convo, and number closed her.

My advice on a library pickup would be to go for an insta-date instead of a #close because you have a great opportunity to get something to drink/eat or whatever with her during a "study break". That way you have a better chance to build good rapport with her and then you can #close/k-close her after the insta-date.
 
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I'm going to help you young men out here and give you something gold! Humor always works best.

Sit across from the girl and pass her written notes. In your note state, "I'm writing you this note not because I am obeying the library's rule of silence, but rather because I am a mute and can't talk. I can also read lips if you just want to mouth your response back to me.

Ask her some entertaining questions...

Then write something like, "it kind of sucks being a mute because I can't impress girls with my verbal wit, so I must do it in writing and it kind of sucks when there is no paper around. But I have enough paper here to carry a 10 hour conversation with you. SMILE!

I am every women's dream, "a man that can't speak allows more time for the women to talk!" then write, "I'm an excellent conversationalist on all the internet chat rooms and instant messaging...how about giving me your e-mail address so that we can communicate further."

Write crazy stuff like that, then right before you leave you miraculously get your voice back and you would now prefer her phone number!

This approach may be too sophisticated and mature for some of you young guys!:rolleyes:
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmm, grab Kama Sutra and sit across her carefully examining each page.

That wasn't helpful now was it?
 

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Damn thats hilarious PRL, where do u come up with this stuff, i'm definately gonna use that, thanks.
 
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