"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approaching Groups

Chronix

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Whats a good way to walk up to a group of 2-4 girls sitting at a table at lunch, or maybe even between classes and get good vibes going? I searched but there was a bunch of results and none looked useful. Any tips?

I remember reading a post about someone using something like "When you first walked into the restruant, the light was hitting you at a 20 degree angle and i thought to myself... dam that girl looks pretty cute... and now that im standing/sitting beside you, I figured that.................. I figured that I was right." Im thinking about testing that out but to me... that kind of seems to me that to the group itl look as if you are chasing just one of the females, and that takes you out of being the prize and puts that one female as the prize.

All suggestions are helpful.

-ChroN
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr_rogers

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Chronix said:
Whats a good way to walk up to a group of 2-4 girls sitting at a table at lunch, or maybe even between classes and get good vibes going? I searched but there was a bunch of results and none looked useful. Any tips?

I remember reading a post about someone using something like "When you first walked into the restruant, the light was hitting you at a 20 degree angle and i thought to myself... dam that girl looks pretty cute... and now that im standing/sitting beside you, I figured that.................. I figured that I was right." Im thinking about testing that out but to me... that kind of seems to me that to the group itl look as if you are chasing just one of the females, and that takes you out of being the prize and puts that one female as the prize.

All suggestions are helpful.

-ChroN
Wow... That is total AFC advice, IMO. That's great if you're trying to make her fall in love with you for the rest of your lives and then some. God knows I wouldn't use that to pick up some girl... *shudders*
 

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start talking to them like you would normally do then do a false time constraint and sit down. remember don't go str8 for the target, befriend the friends first.
 

Chronix

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Distant Light said:
start talking to them like you would normally do then do a false time constraint and sit down. remember don't go str8 for the target, befriend the friends first.
What exactly is a false time constraint? Whats a good opener too, i like to approach and do handshakes.
 

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Chronix said:
What exactly is a false time constraint? Whats a good opener too, i like to approach and do handshakes.
High 5s
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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j8snx1

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It's clear by now that the "pick up line" you just learned is completely useless my friend. Instead of using garbage that you wouldn't normally allow to come out of your mouth, just use common sense and your surroundings.

For ex:
The 2-4 girls are all debating on whether Bush makes a good president or not. You just happen to walk by them and hear their conversation briefly so you might want to approach them and ask if you can join them because:

a) you've been wondering why Bush was such a big issue so you wanted to know the details behind WHY Bush is horrible
b) you're doing a report on how Bush has coped with different international issues
c) whatever that's government/Bush related, making sure you add ****y/funny, kino, etc.

I can't say for sure because there are too many scenarios, but simply put it this way; use your surroundings or the topic of the discussion and branch it all out from there.
 

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2 - 4 girls probably won't be discussing bush. LMAO.
Politics are boring.
I like to network, like, if I know one of them then I'm jetset.
But I like to ask them a question, or something of the sort.
"Is that fish really all that good?"
Just learn how to make approaches, that's the easy part.
 
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