"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chronix

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Whats a good way to walk up to a group of 2-4 girls sitting at a table at lunch, or maybe even between classes and get good vibes going? I searched but there was a bunch of results and none looked useful. Any tips?

I remember reading a post about someone using something like "When you first walked into the restruant, the light was hitting you at a 20 degree angle and i thought to myself... dam that girl looks pretty cute... and now that im standing/sitting beside you, I figured that.................. I figured that I was right." Im thinking about testing that out but to me... that kind of seems to me that to the group itl look as if you are chasing just one of the females, and that takes you out of being the prize and puts that one female as the prize.

All suggestions are helpful.

-ChroN
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr_rogers

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Chronix said:
Whats a good way to walk up to a group of 2-4 girls sitting at a table at lunch, or maybe even between classes and get good vibes going? I searched but there was a bunch of results and none looked useful. Any tips?

I remember reading a post about someone using something like "When you first walked into the restruant, the light was hitting you at a 20 degree angle and i thought to myself... dam that girl looks pretty cute... and now that im standing/sitting beside you, I figured that.................. I figured that I was right." Im thinking about testing that out but to me... that kind of seems to me that to the group itl look as if you are chasing just one of the females, and that takes you out of being the prize and puts that one female as the prize.

All suggestions are helpful.

-ChroN
Wow... That is total AFC advice, IMO. That's great if you're trying to make her fall in love with you for the rest of your lives and then some. God knows I wouldn't use that to pick up some girl... *shudders*
 

Distant Light

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start talking to them like you would normally do then do a false time constraint and sit down. remember don't go str8 for the target, befriend the friends first.
 

Chronix

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Distant Light said:
start talking to them like you would normally do then do a false time constraint and sit down. remember don't go str8 for the target, befriend the friends first.
What exactly is a false time constraint? Whats a good opener too, i like to approach and do handshakes.
 

oakraiderz2

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Chronix said:
What exactly is a false time constraint? Whats a good opener too, i like to approach and do handshakes.
High 5s
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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j8snx1

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It's clear by now that the "pick up line" you just learned is completely useless my friend. Instead of using garbage that you wouldn't normally allow to come out of your mouth, just use common sense and your surroundings.

For ex:
The 2-4 girls are all debating on whether Bush makes a good president or not. You just happen to walk by them and hear their conversation briefly so you might want to approach them and ask if you can join them because:

a) you've been wondering why Bush was such a big issue so you wanted to know the details behind WHY Bush is horrible
b) you're doing a report on how Bush has coped with different international issues
c) whatever that's government/Bush related, making sure you add ****y/funny, kino, etc.

I can't say for sure because there are too many scenarios, but simply put it this way; use your surroundings or the topic of the discussion and branch it all out from there.
 

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2 - 4 girls probably won't be discussing bush. LMAO.
Politics are boring.
I like to network, like, if I know one of them then I'm jetset.
But I like to ask them a question, or something of the sort.
"Is that fish really all that good?"
Just learn how to make approaches, that's the easy part.
 
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