"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prodoge

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Hey guys, i was wondering while being in a bar and see someone who i find attractive usually I check them out and try to make eye contact to see how they react before i consider going to say hi.

But what if they dont make eye contact with me or do but briefly with no reaction, is even worth going to talk to them and how would you start such a conersation? Having had no prior interaction.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Von

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Make a move, interact, buid and see results.

Sometimes, approaching with no contact done has better chances
 

Floydispink01

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Walk up to her and ask for her name. If she gives to you. Say ‘Well (Name), its nice to meet you’. Nothing else.

If she asks for your name – she has given you a window of opportunity to seduce her. If she doesnt smile and walk away.

This is your filter to check if she has initial interest in you.
 

Yewki

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how would you start such a conversation?
I think you're filtering what you want to say too much. Stop worrying about the "right" thing to say and just try to say what's on your mind. There's no right answer
 
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