"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prodoge

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Hey guys, i was wondering while being in a bar and see someone who i find attractive usually I check them out and try to make eye contact to see how they react before i consider going to say hi.

But what if they dont make eye contact with me or do but briefly with no reaction, is even worth going to talk to them and how would you start such a conersation? Having had no prior interaction.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Von

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Make a move, interact, buid and see results.

Sometimes, approaching with no contact done has better chances
 

Floydispink01

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Walk up to her and ask for her name. If she gives to you. Say ‘Well (Name), its nice to meet you’. Nothing else.

If she asks for your name – she has given you a window of opportunity to seduce her. If she doesnt smile and walk away.

This is your filter to check if she has initial interest in you.
 

Yewki

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how would you start such a conversation?
I think you're filtering what you want to say too much. Stop worrying about the "right" thing to say and just try to say what's on your mind. There's no right answer
 
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