"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Prodoge

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Hey guys, i was wondering while being in a bar and see someone who i find attractive usually I check them out and try to make eye contact to see how they react before i consider going to say hi.

But what if they dont make eye contact with me or do but briefly with no reaction, is even worth going to talk to them and how would you start such a conersation? Having had no prior interaction.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Von

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Make a move, interact, buid and see results.

Sometimes, approaching with no contact done has better chances
 

Floydispink01

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Walk up to her and ask for her name. If she gives to you. Say ‘Well (Name), its nice to meet you’. Nothing else.

If she asks for your name – she has given you a window of opportunity to seduce her. If she doesnt smile and walk away.

This is your filter to check if she has initial interest in you.
 

Yewki

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how would you start such a conversation?
I think you're filtering what you want to say too much. Stop worrying about the "right" thing to say and just try to say what's on your mind. There's no right answer
 
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