“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Approaching girls with their guys present

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A buddy of mine and i were walking by one of those downtown restaurants, when i noticed a really cute asian girl sitting at the patio table. Just when he was about to approach her, a guy came out of the restaurant and sat in front of her. So i was thinking out loud as usual, and said how hilarious it would be if he still approached her and asked her out in front of the guy, whether he's her friend or AFC boyfriend. That's how the idea was born. We're gonna do it this fall, and are thinking of taping it from afar: we could switch roles every other time. What do you guys think? Not exactly the most efficient method of getting numbers, but the most fun one by far! :D
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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You must have alot of time on your hands :p

Remember, whatevers clever.
 
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Can you guys suggest some approaches? I was thinking of just coming up, apologising for interrupting, introducing myself, and asking her for the digits. Or perhaps i could pretend like i went to high school with her and get her to say which high school it was and so forth. :D
 
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I think the whole thing is simply self-defeating.

But if you want you could try, "this guy is a dildo- why not come back with me?"
 
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I hope you have good boxing/fighting skills. Some dudes wont take this too kindly.:mad:
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Originally posted by racerX
I hope you have good boxing/fighting skills. Some dudes wont take this too kindly.:mad:
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Amen...you most likely aren't dealing with other DJs here. They would rather fight you than handle it well. And AFCs make good fighters.

Nor is it necessarily smooth to disrespect other guys like that, AFC or otherwise. I would find that offensive, DJ or not...and in most cases I'm willing to believe the girl would, too.

Eye contact, yeah. But at LEAST wait until he goes to the bathroom or something.
 
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I dunno if he was just a friend or her brother or some s*** then an approach in that situation would make you look the *Money* :D
 
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Man this happened to me about 10 times with my X, and fukc it is annoying. You will end up just looking like a chump and being teased by her and her boyfriend, so you will NOT be getting the last laugh, although if you still think it is a good idea, go for it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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