"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approaching Girls when their face expression seems wit a bad attitude

YoungSir4sho

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I know we all been thru this b4. When u are outside n u want to go talk to her. THen she has this expression on her face like she doesnt want to b talked to. Or if she is on her ipod. Wat do u do? Still talk n see wat happens
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EFFORT

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YoungSir4sho said:
I know we all been thru this b4. When u are outside n u want to go talk to her. THen she has this expression on her face like she doesnt want to b talked to. Or if she is on her ipod. Wat do u do? Still talk n see wat happens
talk to her...its just another approach
 

Hector

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you smile and say hi, 90% percent of the time she will do the same, if you see her often like at school, just say "hey i have you for class but I rarely talk to you, my name is _________ whats yours? then talk about for example or a good starter, "who do you think would make a good president?" then from what you know you improvise, that way she knows you're friendly, approachable,intellectual. tease her a bit she laughs and chats more than you;re good to go and if you can get her number thats even better, tell you what you might want to read up on a new thread call "HEY YOU READ THIS". Hopefully I helped you
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Girls with straight faces tend to be the ones who give off the most unexpected reactions. Its as if u've made their day. Go for it! ;-)
 

Tear Gas

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does she have this bi tchy look on her face before or after you start talking to her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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