"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approaching Girls when their face expression seems wit a bad attitude

YoungSir4sho

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I know we all been thru this b4. When u are outside n u want to go talk to her. THen she has this expression on her face like she doesnt want to b talked to. Or if she is on her ipod. Wat do u do? Still talk n see wat happens
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EFFORT

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YoungSir4sho said:
I know we all been thru this b4. When u are outside n u want to go talk to her. THen she has this expression on her face like she doesnt want to b talked to. Or if she is on her ipod. Wat do u do? Still talk n see wat happens
talk to her...its just another approach
 

Hector

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you smile and say hi, 90% percent of the time she will do the same, if you see her often like at school, just say "hey i have you for class but I rarely talk to you, my name is _________ whats yours? then talk about for example or a good starter, "who do you think would make a good president?" then from what you know you improvise, that way she knows you're friendly, approachable,intellectual. tease her a bit she laughs and chats more than you;re good to go and if you can get her number thats even better, tell you what you might want to read up on a new thread call "HEY YOU READ THIS". Hopefully I helped you
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Girls with straight faces tend to be the ones who give off the most unexpected reactions. Its as if u've made their day. Go for it! ;-)
 

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does she have this bi tchy look on her face before or after you start talking to her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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