Approaching Girls on the Street

[FranklinsTower]

Me and some friends have been going to the college town around us to go pick up chicks, but a problem we've been having is all the girls are either walking in other directions than us, or they look busy. I'd like to get good at street pick up, but its really frustrating

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Aright man, the first thing you gotta do is.

1) There's a straight line of where she's walking....be on that line.
2) As she's sort of close by to where u are at(Since she's still walking on that line)....put ur hand up in a stop motion.
3) Then say "Stop!" not too too loud but powerful enough with a smile

Then she'll stop...make sure ur hand is up until she makes a full stop.

4) Then say what u want to say when opening.

Good Luck

 

[Rex Man]

lol, I've never heard that one! But if you do go that route, be sure to post the results!

 

[Mad Manic]

Aright man, the first thing you gotta do is.

1) There's a straight line of where she's walking....be on that line.
2) As she's sort of close by to where u are at(Since she's still walking on that line)....put ur hand up in a stop motion.
3) Then say "Stop!" not too too loud but powerful enough with a smile

Then she'll stop...make sure ur hand is up until she makes a full stop.

4) Then say what u want to say when opening.

Good Luck

Agreed, worth a go IMO. Delivery here is hugely important though since she's moving, so you'll need great delivery and presence to get her to stop and give you a chance to game her. Worth a go though especially if you get an IOI.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

This is suited for being right in front of her. Now if she's giving u an IOI, still say stop but the stop hand motion isn't needed at this point if she's walking past you.

 

[Mad Manic]

This is suited for being right in front of her. Now if she's giving u an IOI, still say stop but the stop hand motion isn't needed at this point if she's walking past you.

Yeah, it's situations like these where the "Hi, I think you are gorgeous, are you single?" opener is worthy of using. Man I love day game lol.

Btw, I prefer "think" to "you are" because it's less of putting them on a pedastal. I mean you're saying you believe they are gorgeous but haven't pinned that label on them, it's just what YOU think, but "you are" is putting like a gold tag on them in general. Of course it may not make a difference anyway, but worth bearing in mind.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

I personally would just say "Your are" because u have already qualified her in terms of looks. Why not be honest and say it? When u say "I think" it implies that ur not 100% sure....which i think is less effect than saying what u've done already. Yes, direct is definitely best when done this way
Day Game does kick ass, but i def suck at night game much worse. Its personally harder for me...especially at frat parties...if a girl isn't dancing..im just at a blank of what to talk about since they don't got the same attention span a girl does during the day. . haha.

 

[Mad Manic]

I personally would just say "Your are" because u have already qualified her in terms of looks. Why not be honest and say it? When u say "I think" it implies that ur not 100% sure....which i think is less effect than saying what u've done already. Yes, direct is definitely best when done this way
Day Game does kick ass, but i def suck at night game much worse. Its personally harder for me...especially at frat parties...if a girl isn't dancing..im just at a blank of what to talk about since they don't got the same attention span a girl does during the day. . haha.

Tone of voice mate. The way you say something can imply altogether a different meaning. If you end it on a high note it shows uncertainty. But delivered in the right way, it means 'in my opinion', not hesitance ...

Tip: With day game, you'll tend to open, demonstrate your personality and settle into the interaction, soon enough start chatting and exchanging banter, then eventually close on a high note. Your level of humour/playfulness etc. increases as you settle in.

With night game, it's kind of the reverse. Women expect to be approached and men tend to go into dull questions and rapport gaining too quickly. So by showing you're fun and playful and different off the bat, this gets you into the interaction better and then you can kick in with more normal talking.

e.g.) In day time, you can't approach and say "hey there you hot thing, you can be my girlfriend for 5 mins" then head to rapport later. But at night, it would feel acceptable and suitable esp. if delivered well.

Simply: In day time, you ease in then pow!, at night its more pow! then ease in.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Thank You, that answered alot of questions for me. I was wondering for the longest time why i sucked at it so much.haha.

 

[greenlake]

"I think" " or "excuse me"? Say whatever you want imo. As long as you think it's normal and not putting her up the pedestal. by having that thought, u're already put her up the pedestal. If she likes you, she'll like you. Simple as that.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

I would doubt having that thought is putting her on a pedastal as its only natural for us too but thinking about it too much that will tho, imo.

 

[Mad Manic]

I'm gonna do 5 days in a row of day game from tomorrow, and I'll post back generally my results. A lot of it will be approaching women who are still but I'll do some moving ones too, where I ask them if they're single. I'm hoping to get at least 10 numbers by the end of friday as a minimum target.

Woooo!

 

[Snow Plowman]

It's all about frame control and sucking them into your reality.

Daygame seems hard because of the environment...crowded, people on ipods, people on cell phones, people walking fast. So the first thing you gotta do is suck them into your reality so they forget about what they were doing and they become focused on the interaction.

If you think logically about all this you won't approach nothing and be stuck in your head because you'll be thinking "I'm interrupting them", "She's on her phone", etc. If a high value guy comes brings her into there world, what she is doing or is focused on is irrelevant.

 

[Mad Manic]

It's all about frame control and sucking them into your reality.

Daygame seems hard because of the environment...crowded, people on ipods, people on cell phones, people walking fast. So the first thing you gotta do is suck them into your reality so they forget about what they were doing and they become focused on the interaction.

If you think logically about all this you won't approach nothing and be stuck in your head because you'll be thinking "I'm interrupting them", "She's on her phone", etc. If a high value guy comes brings her into there world, what she is doing or is focused on is irrelevant.

Day game is great where I am. Lots of attractive girls walking around on their own standing still in bookstores, CD stores,etc and sitting down.